Every relationship shape deserves support.
Affirming counselling for polyamorous, open and consensually non-monogamous relationships — individuals, couples and polycules.
Written by Elza Berk, Founder & registered counsellor · ASCHP WCW/271 · 20+ years’ clinical experience · Updated 28 September 2026
Consensual non-monogamy is a valid way to love, but it can be hard to find a counsellor who understands it without judgement or an agenda to “fix” it.
Our counsellors work with mono and poly relationships alike. We help with communication, agreements, jealousy, time and energy, opening a relationship, coming out to family, and the particular griefs of changing relationship structures.
Whatever your structure, the aim is the same: honest communication, respect for everyone involved, and relationships that feel good to be in.
We help with
- Opening a relationship thoughtfully
- Jealousy and insecurity
- Agreements and boundaries
- Balancing time between partners
- Coming out to family or friends
- Ending or changing a relationship
You don’t need a diagnosis to reach out.
How we work with you.
No judgement
Your relationship structure is respected, not questioned.
Clear agreements
Talking through needs, boundaries and consent.
Working with feelings
Jealousy and fear as information, not failure.
Choose who feels right.
Omashree Balie
Specialist Wellness Counsellor
“Seeking counselling is personal, difficult, and sometimes lonely — but the results are life-changing. I aim to make that journey as comfortable as possible.”
- Couples & marriage
- Divorce
- LGBTQIA+ affirming
English · Afrikaans
Mimi Shirindza
Registered Counsellor
“Every person carries the capacity for growth and renewal. My role is to walk alongside you as you rediscover and strengthen those inherent gifts.”
- Trauma
- Grief & loss
- Couples
English · Xitsonga · isiZulu
Megan Andrew
Registered Counsellor
“I offer a safe space where clients feel heard and supported to better understand themselves, navigate life’s challenges, and move towards meaningful change.”
- ADHD & autism
- Perinatal support
- Trauma
English
Risimati Chauke
Social Worker
“I create a safe, non-judgemental space where clients can process their experiences and find practical pathways toward healing and resilience.”
- Addiction (harm reduction)
- Trauma
- Crisis intervention
English · Xitsonga · Tshivenda · isiZulu · Sepedi
Talita Kondlo
Registered Wellness Counsellor
“I take a compassionate, client-centred approach — creating a safe space to explore emotions, heal from the past, and build healthier ways of coping going forward.”
- Trauma
- Couples
- Anger management
English · isiXhosa · isiZulu
Jamie-Leigh Brickles
Registered Specialist Wellness Counsellor
“Counselling is collaborative, and at its core it’s about your heart. I believe we all have the answers deeply rooted within us; sometimes we just need the courage to reach for them.”
- Anxiety
- Grief & loss
- Trauma
English
Elza Berk
Founder & CEO · Registered Counsellor
“I built MyTruth because I needed it then and it didn’t exist. Every counsellor here has been chosen for their capacity to sit with what is real.”
- Addiction (harm reduction)
- Trauma
- Eating disorders
English · Afrikaans
Common questions
Can more than two partners attend?
Yes. Sessions can include several partners, joining from different places.
Will the counsellor try to make us monogamous?
No. We support the structure you have chosen.
Is this LGBTQIA+ affirming?
Yes. All our counsellors are LGBTQIA+ affirming.
Your truth deserves to be heard.
Choose a counsellor who speaks your language and understands your world. Sessions are online, private and booked in minutes.